WHAT DO WOMEN WANT?
Women’s well being depends on various factors and in my talk today, i will be addressing the most after-sought question
WHAT DO WOMEN WANT?
So let me ask you first a question, being a woman What do you want from your life?
Her answer should be: Love, Respect & Freedom>
Great. Having known that the needs of men and women are not different, I want to address the gender in-equalities in achieving love, respect or freedom.
I personally respect WOMEN for the MULTI-TASKING that they can do. By the time I get ready for OFFICE, my spouse has finished exercising, Sending children to school, cooking, and other household chores, etc etc. <SMILE>
And I love the women in my life be it my mom, sister, or my spouse. Though born and brought up in a conventional family background, I have always been the voice of the women in my life.
I personally wanted them to have a life of their choice. Birth and death are constant to all but your choices define you and your life.
Let’s come to the topic and tell you how it is possible to achieve well being while living a life of your choice.
Why do women then experience domestic violence?
It is an astonishing fact that 1 in 3 women experience domestic violence; and remain in sufferings for most of their lives. Society prejudices and the man-made world that we live in is a great contributor to this. अब तक यह क्यों चला आ रहा है, यह तो पता नहीं मगर क्या कर सकते हैं, इसके बारे में मैं कुछ बातें यह कर सकता हूँ।
As a women:-
One – Set your priorities very clearly and let everybody around know that this is how you wanna spend your day or life. Voice out or suffer in silence, but make the right choices.
Many-a-times women are themselves CONFUSED and END UP feeling frustrated.
So, the first key is SET YOUR PRIORITIES.
Two – Delegate.
You should very clearly know what can be easily delegated and where you need to spend your QUALITY TIME. You can always HIRE HELP and cut down on the non-productive working hours of yours. Do not over shoulder your tasks, be it home or workplace. Delegation will leave you with better time management where you can spend your time.
Three – ME TIME.
FORGETTING ALL YOUR ROLES AND DOING SOMETHING FOR YOURSELF IS WHAT I CALL ME-TIME. AND in this ME TIME, you can follow –
a- Your PASSION, WHICH COULD BE WRITING, DRAWING, PAINTING, DANCING, SINGING, GARDENING, SOCIAL SERVICE, OR MAY BE JUST ANYTHING THAT YOU ENJOY TO THE CORE OF YOUR HEART.
b-You may MEET WITH YOUR FRIENDS, GO TO A SPA, CHIT CHAT with YOUR LOVED ONES, or even DATE SOMEONE for that matter.
c-YOU MAY EXERCISE, DO YOGA, GO FOR A WALK, DO ZUMBA, OR ANYTHING. Or Basically just do NOTHING. 🙂
At least an HOUR DAILY for yourself will keep you rejuvenated, refreshed, and more productive and only make you less robotic and more humanely.
Recently from your post, I realized that 181 million women are not in education, employment or training.
That is what I just mentioned that women will have to take charge of her own life rather than waiting for opportunities or approvals.
4- Give IMPORTANCE to YOUR CAREER, YOUR PASSION, and YOURSELF.
Between birth and death, lies all the choices that you make and those choices carve your destiny.
So when you are clear and not confused, you end up being proud and set the right example to your descendants and command respect. Be it from family, friends, colleagues or society.
Many of the women quit their jobs as they plan a family. Do men take a break, even for the Paternity leave?
Ask yourself and make a wise decision. We have shared with you the insights of a DREAM LIFE where you can have the best of both worlds – work and family which is EQUAL TO your life.
Do not feel guilty and take your life in a stride because
“Zindagi Na Milegi Dobara!”
And you shall know that you are worth it! Because
1. You are an individual. You have a name, you have an identity, you have something unique about you. So Never compromise on your identity.
2. You have your own dreams. When it’s your body, your mind, then everything you wanna do belongs to you. You need not sacrifice to make others happy. Fulfill your own dreams before helping your husband, brother, son, mother, or sister achieve theirs.
3. You need to be respected for whoever and whatever you are or you do. You shall not be taken for granted by anyone. There’s no breed superior to humanity and no man can treat you less. You need to wear your attitude always.
4. You need not seek permissions. It has to be your wish and nobody shall drive for you. You are the driver of your life. You may ask for advice, suggestions but not permission. You may adjust by your will but not compromise.
5. Make something worthwhile in your life. Learn, earn, enjoy, raise children, raise humanity, make a mark before you leave this world. Just don’t be remembered as the daughter of or wife of but be remembered as you.
Stand up for those women who are forced to live a particular life and you can start that from your own daughter. If not for you, for your daughter, set the right example because 28 girls in a minute are forced to get married against their will.
Being in the 21st century, you set yourself on a part of choices and not by chance.
With this note, I wish all the women more empowerment and hats off to your spirits of multitasking and creating happiness for everyone around.
3 cheers to all the women out here and everywhere,
women rock!! Men are only in shock!!!!!
Make your life a sweet combination of all that you always wanted.
SMILE 🙂
