In the intricate dance of parenting, the phrase “Do as I say, not as I do” has echoed through generations. Yet, as we navigate the nuanced journey of raising children, it’s time to reconsider this age-old adage. In this blog, “Do as I say not as I do parenting?” brought to you by MyShishu, we’ll explore the limitations of this approach and why “Do as I do” might be the key to effective parenting.

1. Understanding ‘Do as I Say, Not as I Do’: The phrase stems from a well-intentioned desire of parents to shield their children from negative behaviors they might witness. It reflects a self-awareness of certain actions that parents deem inappropriate for their kids to imitate.
2. Limitations of ‘Do as I Say’: While the intention behind “Do as I say” is to guide children away from negative behaviors, its effectiveness diminishes over time. Children are keen observers and often learn more from what they see than what they hear.
3. The Power of Leading by Example: “Do as I do” emerges as a more potent approach to parenting. Children are more likely to emulate behaviors modeled by their parents. Leading by example sets a consistent standard and fosters a positive environment for learning and growth.
4. Long-Term Impact on Children’s Behavior: The behaviors children observe in their formative years significantly shape their own actions and attitudes. Parents who practice what they preach create a foundation for positive long-term outcomes in their children’s behavior.

5. MyShishu’s Perspective on Effective Parenting: At MyShishu, we believe in empowering parents with strategies that align with the evolving understanding of child development. Our resources emphasize the importance of leading by example, recognizing that children absorb lessons through observation and experience.

6. Rethinking Parenting Dynamics: The phrase “Do as I say, not as I do” encapsulates a common parenting strategy rooted in the desire to shield children from undesirable behaviors. However, the evolving landscape of effective parenting encourages a shift towards “Do as I do.” This approach acknowledges that children are astute observers, learning more from actions than words. By leading by example, parents can instill values, attitudes, and behaviors that stand the test of time. MyShishu advocates this transformative perspective, recognizing that parenting is a continuous journey of modeling the behaviors we wish to see reflected in our children’s lives.

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Conclusion: Do as I say, not as I do parenting?

As parents, our actions speak louder than words. The phrase “Do as I say, not as I do” is a reminder of the challenges in parenting, but embracing the philosophy of “Do as I do” offers a transformative path. By modeling the behaviors we wish to see in our children, we set the stage for a positive and enduring impact on their lives.

Riddles/Quiz Section: Do as I say, not as I do parenting?

1. Riddle: The more you take, the more you leave behind. What am I?
   Answer: Footsteps.
2. Quiz: What parenting approach is emphasized by MyShishu for effective child development?a) “Do as I say, not as I do”
   b) “Do as I do”
   c) “Do whatever you want”
   d) “Do as your friends do”
   Answer: b) “Do as I do”

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